Should he be upset @ me bc I chose to keep our baby?

I can see this from both sides. I could see him being upset. After all, guys really don't have any say in whether or not they get to keep a child. Women are really the only ones who can choose to abort or not. I'm sure some men get screwed (both literally and figuratively) by the women they choose to sleep with. The woman could tell him she is on birth control and not be, she could mess with the condom etc. and then the man is resposible for a baby he had no intention of conceiving. With that said, however, he did choose to sleep with you and not use a condom at all (from what I understand), so I guess he took the chance. Why people would sleep with virtually perfect strangers without a condom is beyond me. I think it's idiotic.