Shall i meet him or leave it ?

ive been close friends with a guy for 2 years and been a total rock to him. i really like him but we've been rowing lately as hes been treating me quite badly and i told him this last week in an email. i know hes had some personal stuff going on lately but i was shocked as i found out he had been confiding in a manager and told her i had a crush on him ! i was fuming as i like him a lot and after everything we've been through i was so hurt. anyway hes since told the manager everythings fine and wants to meet with me for a coffee to talk. i want answers but am scared and wary now but i want to go. my two close friends have said not to but i still have to work with him and i still value him even after what he did to me shall i go ? i feel i have to but im nervous